My dad would always say, “take care of each other” to me, every time I left him. His parting words, ever ones of togetherness, and gentle reassurance.
Not just a singular, always a “love to all”, or “give them my love”. Our little family group, always the care to each of us as a whole given.
A lighthouse man, a Martin, a giver of ‘green butterfly’ awards in the north east, my inspiration to forge forward in my writerly hopes. This little cluster of cardigan bound badges, each speak of him. Grouped also, in familial togetherness.
I am reminded, every day, to keep doing my best within our little family. Our girls, ever growing, personalities and lives more their own than ever, they fly the nest a little more with every feat of trepidation they achieve.
Some days, spent with friends, at school, at camps, and latterly, in different countries even to my husband and I. They are resilient and bold, quietly confident, and although perhaps reserved at times, they are courageous souls, the pair of them.
Life has always felt boundless to me. No finite quality to ‘what I want to be when I grow up’, the same applies to them. Their lives will evolve, just as they do, just as we all do within our own, also.
We strive to provide, and ends will be met, fortune is great in the love we are lucky enough to hold between us.
It’s my boy cats birthday today. His life too, rich in circumstance. Woodlands surrounding our home, he lives a blessed life, and we are happy to share it with him.
My point being, we take care of one another, and I have tried so hard to do so, ever since Dad passed. Mum also. Like they did for me. I cannot be everything to everyone, but I can try to be my best me, to these five other souls I share my closest life with.
Flowers planted, which my Dad gave to me, grow. Ladybirds are appearing. The sun still shines. I draw, I paint, I write. I run, I lift, I walk. I work. I love.
Small things, actually, are the big things.
Ever onwards.
Jen x
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